Is love dead? Thoughts on Valentine’s Day at Asbury

It’s midwinter. To counter the dreary, gray Kentucky days, pink and red hues are to be found all over campus in celebration of Valentine’s Day. To those for whom love comes easily, this special day can be seen as one to express love and affection, but to the less fortunate, it is the bane of their existence. 

On Valentine’s Day, your favorite Stuce couples will be posting red and pink flowers, cute throwbacks and romantic date night pictures, as if you don’t already see their happiness on a daily basis when you pass them on the couches. 

But what is Asbury’s consensus on this Hallmark holiday? Your fellow students weigh in with their thoughts. 

“Gross! Too many couples running around. I am personally not a fan,” said senior Will Harrison.

“I feel like it’s condescending and pejorative towards people not in romantic relationships,” said senior Sam Roberts.

Roberts does indeed have a point. Especially at Asbury, Valentine’s Day is often heavily discriminatory against those who aren’t in relationships, but some prefer to make the most of it whether in a relationship or not.

“The real Valentine’s Day is Galentine’s,” said junior Grace Gorby, who noted that she plans to celebrate the holiday with the girls on the 13th, nicknamed “Galentine’s Day.”

Some, however, prefer the day after.

“Those discounted chocolates on the 15th, though,” said senior Annie Pan, who plans to grab her favorite candies when they go on sale. 

Finally, there are those who feel that Valentine’s Day is simply another day.

“To me, Valentine’s at Asbury feels like any other Valentine’s Day,” said senior Jade Franchino. “I’m kinda glad it’s on a Sunday this year though.” 

That’s right, readers. Valentine’s Day is on a Sunday. For those who aren’t as interested in the holiday of love, at least you won’t have to pass the Stuce couples. 

However, it is important to take everything in good humor, and though Valentine’s Day might not be everyone’s favorite holiday, it’s still an excuse to show yourself, your friends or your significant other appreciation and love. Do something for yourself. Whether it’s buying discounted chocolates, celebrating with friends or a significant other or simply reminding yourself that you are loved, Valentine’s Day is a good reminder that we could all use more love in the world we live in.